During the 1970s, the relationship between Eric Clapton and Pattie Boyd shifted from a desperate, unrequited obsession into a high-profile marriage. This decade-long journey, which saw them eventually wed in March 1979, became one of the most legendary sagas in rock history.
In the late 1960s, Clapton was one of Harrison’s best friends and became deeply enamored with Boyd. In 1970, he professed his love to her directly, but although her relationship with Harrison was becoming strained, she chose to remain with the Beatle. Clapton invited Boyd to an apartment in South Kensington, claiming he had a new song for her to hear. When she arrived, he played her the recording of “Layla” two or three times, watching her face intently the whole time. Boyd reportedly thought, “God, everyone’s going to know it's about me.”
Among the documents that later came to light is a love letter Clapton wrote to Boyd in 1970, when she was still married to Harrison. Signed mysteriously only “E,” Boyd initially thought it was from a “weird fan” and even showed it to Harrison. Boyd’s rejection of Clapton inspired him to write “Layla” and other love songs for Derek and the Dominos’ classic album Layla and Other Assorted Love Songs. Clapton also descended into heroin addiction during this period.
By the early 1970s, the Harrison–Boyd marriage was falling apart. Both had affairs, and hard drugs and alcohol were increasingly prevalent in their lives. They agreed to split in 1974 and divorced three years later in 1977. After Clapton cleaned up from heroin addiction, he and Boyd began a romance around 1974, with Harrison’s blessing. Within weeks of her divorce from George being finalized, Pattie began a formal relationship with Clapton. That same period saw Clapton write his classic 1977 love song “Wonderful Tonight” about Pattie, composed while she was getting ready to attend Paul and Linda McCartney’s annual Buddy Holly party.
On March 27, 1979, Clapton and Boyd were married at Temple Bethel in Tucson, Arizona, the day before Clapton was scheduled to launch a U.S. tour. Only 40 guests attended the ceremony. George Harrison, remarkably, gave his blessing — his reaction to the news being the now-famous line: “I’d rather she was with him than some dope.” Harrison even lovingly referred to himself as their “husband-in-law” at their wedding reception.
Their relationship was turbulent from the start, with Clapton's spiraling alcoholism creating serious issues throughout its duration, and eventually pulling Boyd into a period of alcohol dependency as well. The marriage ended in 1989.
Boyd later reflected that she suspected Clapton’s pursuit of her “had more to do” with the competitive aspect of his friendship with Harrison, believing that “Eric just wanted what George had.” Despite everything, Rolling Stone referred to Boyd as a “legendary rock muse,” and the Boyd–Clapton–Harrison love triangle has been described as “one of the most mythical romantic entanglements in rock ‘n’ roll history.”